Types Of Darkness And Toxicity

I was recently talking to a friend about darkness, and they said that they no longer fear it because spirituality usually only talks about the light, with the view that the darkness was something to fear. I have said before, without darkness there can be no light, and we rise from the darkness into the …

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When Resentment Turns Into Darkness

There are several types of toxicity, some that we can't help and some that we have control over. However, the latter can come with dilemmas of doing the right thing, or thinking you are doing the right thing but not because you feel it is the right thing. A friend spoke to me today of …

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Guides and their boundaries

A few days ago, I exchanged Christmas messages with an old spiritual friend of mine who has chosen to cut down everything in the digital world. We discussed a few spiritual events and experiences, and they said they were intrigued by my role as a Guide with charges. I replied that it wasn't as exciting …

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Deciphering and Acknowledging Signs and Symbols

Sometimes we can get obsessed with signs and look for them or even try and tailor them to what we want to believe. But why do we have signs and symbols? Often they are to guide us or to encourage us when we are on a path and want to give up, but can we …

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The Choices For The Remains Of Our Lives

There was a time when each day was packed with something I had to do, with tasks delegated to a specific hour and like many, I was conditioned into thinking if I achieved all of this then it was normal and showed that you had leadership qualities. I used to think I had done well …

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The Perils Of Procrastination

A while back, a friend asked me to help a friend of theirs in a matter that had spiraled out of control, due in part to the Covid-19 lockdown, depression, but also procrastination. The last two are difficult because they often go hand in hand, and if you have suffered from depression, things that need …

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Rejecting Help From The Fixed Price Menu

Learning to recognize and to accept help is a tough lesson. Now that may seem strange to some, as there are some Souls who readily accept help and who always ask for it. I had a friend who was like this who never bothered to try and do things, and was always seeking those who …

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The Struggles and Conflicts When Guiding

Life isn't fair – it never has been, and never will be because what does fair really mean? For each of us it has a different meaning, but we yell out, 'It's not fair,' when we have lost control, when things don't go our way, or we are tired of battling for what we want …

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Guiding With Balance and Dealing With Toxicity

Finding a balance in life is difficult enough, but when you try to find balance as a Guide, that task becomes harder. Many people think being a Guide is easy, that it's a matter of mentoring someone and telling them what to do, but it's quite the opposite for me at least. Guides work in …

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Self-Isolation, The Dark Night of The Soul, and The Hermitage Life

The coronavirus pandemic has forced millions of people into self-isolation in a bid to curb the spread to the virus, and while some see it as a form of imprisonment, if you are an Old Soul who chooses a hermitage lifestyle, or have been through a Dark Night of the Soul, then you will already …

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