The Choices For The Remains Of Our Lives

There was a time when each day was packed with something I had to do, with tasks delegated to a specific hour and like many, I was conditioned into thinking if I achieved all of this then it was normal and showed that you had leadership qualities. I used to think I had done well …

The Perils Of Procrastination

A while back, a friend asked me to help a friend of theirs in a matter that had spiraled out of control, due in part to the Covid-19 lockdown, depression, but also procrastination. The last two are difficult because they often go hand in hand, and if you have suffered from depression, things that need …

Rejecting Help From The Fixed Price Menu

Learning to recognize and to accept help is a tough lesson. Now that may seem strange to some, as there are some Souls who readily accept help and who always ask for it. I had a friend who was like this who never bothered to try and do things, and was always seeking those who …

The Struggles and Conflicts When Guiding

Life isn't fair – it never has been, and never will be because what does fair really mean? For each of us it has a different meaning, but we yell out, 'It's not fair,' when we have lost control, when things don't go our way, or we are tired of battling for what we want …

When an Old Soul Crosses Your Path

I had a most unexpected pleasure when an Old Soul crossed my path, and it was quite by chance. I called a friend, who had a house guest at the time, and the phone was on speaker as they chipped in on our conversation. We ended up chatting as my friend went off to make …

How The Actions Of Others Create Unanticipated Path Diversions

Too often, when we think we know what direction we are headed in things can change suddenly without explanation. How does this happen, and how do you cope? We have to look back at the root of it all, and acknowledge that every choice we make can affect the lives, paths, and choices of others. …

The Failure To Act Through Fear

As a Guide, much depends on when and whether your charges choose to act, but are you a failure because they failed to act through fear or apathy? Souls must choose to act through their own volition, because that's the lesson they need to learn, but what if they are afraid, or what if they …

Finding The Balance Between Darkness And Light

Recently, the theme of darkness crossed my path again, and while the world as a whole is going through a dark phase, how should we view this and hope do we cope? Many of use have been through dark periods, and have found ourselves stuck in dark corners or crevices. We cope by putting on …

Guiding With Balance and Dealing With Toxicity

Finding a balance in life is difficult enough, but when you try to find balance as a Guide, that task becomes harder. Many people think being a Guide is easy, that it's a matter of mentoring someone and telling them what to do, but it's quite the opposite for me at least. Guides work in …

Self-Isolation, The Dark Night of The Soul, and The Hermitage Life

The coronavirus pandemic has forced millions of people into self-isolation in a bid to curb the spread to the virus, and while some see it as a form of imprisonment, if you are an Old Soul who chooses a hermitage lifestyle, or have been through a Dark Night of the Soul, then you will already …